Insecure in brand brand new relationship. Believe that’s precisely how feeling that is i’m.
I’m 49, divorced plus in new relationship (8 months) Progressing nicely and he’s lovely but I suffer with extreme relationship anxiety which can be really getting even even worse longer I’m seeing him. Terrified from it no longer working down, have problems with low self-confidence and a large component of me seems it might be easier simply to end things now to avoid myself getting harmed. The main presssing problem is we reside over an hour or so or so aside so weekends must be prepared and spontaneous social gatherings maybe maybe not feasible. We have a great time but he finds it impossible to sleep in the same bed as me (he claims he gets restless legs) so we end up sleeping apart and I miss the closeness and can’t sleep for worrying when we are together. By the right time we’ve invested two nights together I’m utterly exhausted and invested and feel really down between visits. (more…)